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A Trip Down Memory Lane

Martha’s Vineyard 1985
Thinking back to the summer of 1985, I was 17 years old and going to be a Senior in high school that coming year. My brother, Bob would be going to Duquesne College in the fall and my sister, Debbie would be a Junior in high school. Tommy would have been nine years old. And Aunt Mary, my Mom’s sister came with us, who in addition to being our Aunt was also a good friend.

I have so many fond memories from that vacation in Martha’s Vineyard — and I have wanted to return ever since that year. I think that vacation was bittersweet — not knowing at the time it would be our last big trip as a family.

Martha’s Vineyard 2015 — What had changed?
I’m glad we ended up going the last week of September over my birthday — during off season. It was probably about as busy as it was in 1985 during peak season. I can’t imagine what it would have been like in peak season if we had gone in June! I would think there would be traffic gridlock on the island and in the towns. We had a hard time finding parking almost anywhere we went. Of course, they recommended alternative forms of transportation, such as biking, but that’s kind of hard to do on crutches!

We noticed lots of contractors — I mean at every turn. Maybe everyone hired contractors at the end of the season. But these guys had big trucks with ladders over the top and buckets hanging off the back. And they didn’t stop at stop signs or yield to other vehicles whatsoever. The streets were narrow around Edgartown, and you could barely get by their vehicles. Thank goodness I had mirrors that flipped in, because I swiped a telephone pole more than once.

I can only imagine the Millers of 1985 coming into Edgartown with our big truck camper! It’s quite a different atmosphere today. The shopping in Edgartown is only for the luxury shopper. There would be nowhere to buy a water purse filled with glitter or pop beads today. Most of the stores were clothing stores and were exclusive and expensive — and we all know that’s just not us. They cleaned up the docks in a bad way. Gone were the birds — the cranes and the seagulls. I used to sketch those birds on the docks in Edgartown. They even built a restaurant where the fishing boats came in. It was so clean and there was no fishy smell. I’m sure that was part of the island’s tourism plan. Sometimes forward progress makes me sad.

I couldn’t wait to get to Chappaquiddick Island! I wanted to see what had changed and what had stayed the same — I have such vivid memories there. The Dike Bridge has been repaired and expanded — obviously a tourist destination — and you had to pay $280 to drive your vehicle across your bridge and out onto the beach. I remember the carefree day that we spent as kids crossing the bridge, watching our step so we didn’t fall through and going out onto Leland Beach. Deserted. Just us. It was amazing. We carved messages in the driftwood. Today, it is a nice touristy thing to do, but I’m so thankful that we had that day back in 1985.

Martha’s Vineyard had become a true tourist destination in every sense of the meaning. Regardless, we had the best vacation we could ever imagine.

Tom and I went somewhere everyday, despite the rain that had moved in on Wednesday and the fact that I was on crutches. We found great bar & pub restaurants — and even tried new food choices. We didn’t have fast food for an entire week, because it’s not allowed on the island (except for a Dairy Queen that was grandfathered in before it became law) . The fact that it was next to the last week of the season — almost everything in Oak Bluffs was 50% off. Oh, did I mention Oak Bluffs? I don’t remember that town at all from 1985. And wow, was I missing out!!!

Oak Bluffs was my kind of shopping! One entire street was dedicated to typical tourist souvenirs. And everything was 50% off. My favorite shop was Craftworks, a store that had artist works from all over the country (not 50% off)! I love glass work and bought the most beautiful bird plates and platter. I also purchased handblown glass pumpkins just in time for the holiday!


This town was nothing like I had ever seen before. There were rows of “gingerbread houses” — all with slightly different architecture and colorful paint. Some of them were bed & breakfasts, but we’d never stay there. We found plenty of parking in Oak Bluffs — maybe it was just the time of day or the fact that it was cold and raining, but we loved it.

Going to the Gayhead Lighthouse was a challenge for me that I refused to give into! You had to climb stairs, then a gradual climb to a steeper climb where we could finally get photos of the lighthouse and cliffs. Coming down was more of a challenge. I was afraid of losing my balance, so I asked Tom to walk in front of me! That night I had to use the ice pack!

We went onto South Beach the same day we arrived. We knew rainy weather was coming, and I was determined to see the ocean! It was tough-going on crutches— sinking in about 10″ — but I figured it out. There were probably about 10 people on the beach. Nobody was in the water that I can remember, even though Tom said it was really warm. I could see vehicles out on the beach about two football fields away. We found the entrance to that area, and I tried to talk Tom into taking my SUV out there. But he was too afraid we’d get stuck in the sand and have no experience with what to do. He was right.

We wore shorts on Monday, because it was so warm and even considered going swimming. Tuesday, we wore jeans with a light jacket and by Wednesday, we dug out anything we brought that resembled winter clothing! It was COLD.

Even our ferry ride back to the mainland was an adventure for us! We moved our trip up to 8:00 am (from noon), because our family in Pittsburgh was worried about the hurricane and the weather. They wanted us to get off the island while we could, and we didn’t have anything planned for Friday. After all, we heard that Hyannis had already canceled their ferry transports. We got there about 7:30 am and were second in line. A freight ferry had just unloaded and the crew asked each of the cars that were lining up for the 8:00 am ferry if we wanted to get in early and catch a ride on the freighter. We were like, “Sure!” Tom said, “Can we get a spot near the elevator, because my wife is on crutches.” The guy laughed and said, “There is no elevator and you stay in your vehicle.” And that was that.

Of course, every time we boarded the ferry, both in Woods Hole and now in Vineyard Haven, we got harassed about our Steelers license plate on our vehicle. Tom would always talk scores with them and it was all in good fun. Once we boarded, we realized after about 15 minutes that we were the only vehicle facing out to the ocean, and the gate they closed was some kind of mesh net. Are you kidding me? The ferry was already rocking from the rough water. It turned out to be terrifying and exciting all at the same time! I was texting with my sister the entire time, and Tom was keeping his foot on the brake and emergency brake. We actually talked about what to do if our SUV plunged off the backend of this freighter. I mean — the water was rough! The waves were crashing over the sides at times. And it was rocking! But, we got to the other side safely and got an early start home.

I’m sure that Tom got sick of hearing the phrase, “30 years ago…” as I must have said that a hundred times, remembering all kinds of small things as we toured the towns in Martha’s Vineyard. But, that was 30 years ago, and I love the trip we took this year. It is now my new Martha’s Vineyard with Tom. So maybe one day we’ll be saying, “10 years ago when we were here…” and remember those days fondly.

Always  B E L I E V E !

Dreaming of Sunny Days

Gay Head Lighthouse, Martha's Vineyard, MA

Our vacation is finally booked and we’re ready to go! Tom and I are headed to Martha’s Vineyard, MA. I’ve been there twice with my family while I was in high school and have always wanted to go back and take Tom. 

It’s been over 30 years since I’ve been there. I loved Martha’s Vineyard. No, it’s definitely not anything like an island in the Caribbean, but it’s wonderful in completely different ways. I have so many fond memories and some things that are burned into my brain — I just have to see if those things are how I remembered them. We used to stay in Edgartown and could walk or ride our bikes to the town. I went everyday, riding to the pier and watching the ferry take travelers to the island of Chappaquiddick. I sometimes took my sketchbook and drew the big birds or the working fishing boats. Did you ever go somewhere that just felt so familiar — so safe and so much like home? Well, it was nothing like home, but it was so familiar.

One day, my brother, my sister, Aunt Mary and I took our bikes on the ferry to Chappaquiddick, and rode to the other side of the island to the bridge that Ted Kennedy drove his car off of. There was nothing there — nobody else but us. The bridge was closed and you couldn’t drive over it. I remember it was made from thick wooden planks with no rails and was about five or six feet in height from the water. We walked under the bridge — there was a lot of super smooth and brightly colored sea glass there. It’s hard to imagine that somebody actually drown there, because it wasn’t very deep — okay maybe a few feet deep right under the bridge — it’s hard to remember. We walked across the bridge through the dunes with tall grasses that opened up to a deserted beach. We carved our names in some driftwood along the beach. Here we were, on a deserted beach on the Atlantic Ocean. What an amazing moment in life! I have no idea where my parents were. It was just like going outside to play at home, because it was so familiar and so safe.

Edgartown has so many shops on Main Street. I remember I bought a pair of jelly shoes (who remembers those?), a water purse (a see through purse filled with water and glitter), and a whole bunch of “pop” beads. Pop beads were all the rage, and you could make bracelets and necklaces of all kinds of color combinations. I think we bought more beads everyday when we rode our bikes to town. We also rode our bikes to town to watch movies in their theater in the old court house. We saw “The Goonies” there.

Of course, the island was much bigger than Edgartown. There’s Oak Bluffs, Vineyard Haven, Tidsbury, Chilmark and Gay Head, among other places. The photo above of the lighthouse with the red cliffs is the Gay Head Lighthouse. I remember that we could walk right up to the edge of the cliffs. I think there was a railing, but you could see everything. To get to the island you have to take a ferry at Woods Hole, MA and come into either Vineyard Haven or Oak Bluffs. We’re coming into Oak Bluffs, because that is closer to where we’re staying.

We’re staying at a newer place — the Winnetu Oceanside Resort at South Beach, Edgartown. All of the places that we can afford are more Bed & Breakfasts, which we don’t like. There aren’t many hotels on the island. This place is nice — every room has a full kitchenette — it’s supposed to be the best of both worlds — like living at home with the conveniences of a hotel. We did look online through a website called Airbnb — where people rent their homes on the island. There were some great options for us, but I didn’t find this site until we had booked the other. We plan on driving to some of these locations while we’re there and considering this option next time we go. We are taking my SUV, but the plan is to rent scooters for the week as you can easily get around with those or bikes. It will take us two days to drive there and two days to get home, so I’ve booked hotels along the way. We are all set!

Tom’s birthday was yesterday. I think it’s the one day that Tom most looks forward to all year long, even more so than Christmas. This year I bought him clothes suitable for cooler summer weather. And each gift was wrapped in bright yellow paper with a photo of Martha’s Vineyard on the outside, telling him where he would be using whatever was inside. It was a fun gift to open and get excited about the trip.

So as the snow continues to fall outside and pile on top of all the other snow we have, I am dreaming of a road trip to the East coast with lots of sunshine. What a great way to kick off the summer!

Always B E L I E V E !